Abundant Relationships

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I commented to a friend that time seems to be speeding up. Our manifestations are happening faster and faster, and it seems that we are powerless to stop the reorganization of our worlds, individually and collectively, towards our greater good. And like a good labor, the pain of working through this experience of rebirth is not exactly comfortable.

We can either blame everything outside of ourselves, or we can look within. Within our hearts, we find the knowledge of what our hearts desire most. I cannot tell you what that is. Only your heart knows.

You know what is there, but do you know it is already yours? Or does the change that must occur to have it manifest in this reality scare you? Are you holding structures in your experience to prevent what you desire most from manifesting in your world?

There are three levels of mental experience for any manifestation of wealth.

  • You can hope it happens.
  • You believe it will happen.
  • You know it is going to happen.

Where are you on your manifestation path. When you write down all of your desired manifestations of wealth, what does your body tell you about where it is in your field of experience?

Because of the rapidity of our manifestations in this new reality, the time it takes to go from hope to knowing is much shorter than it ever has been before.

But if you are in a relationship that is sucking your life force dry, and you hope to live a happy vibrant and joyful life, there is something that must change. Holding on to things that no longer serve you takes a tremendous amount of effort, and they do not sustain you spiritually, emotionally, or even physically. At some point, you will be asked to let go.

Letting go, and doing so with love for yourself and others, is critical to your own growth. And it is likely critical to those around you who need freedom to explore their manifestations as well.

It is always invigorating to find someone who shares your hopes, dreams, and wishes. It is incredibly powerful to manifest as a group of people, even if that group has only 2 members. But at some point, those desires will go different ways. Conflict will arise. And you may need to let go.

Even in the relationships of parent and child, there is a very gradual letting go. Kids grow up and move out. You’ll never stop being mom or dad, but how manifestation happens in that group changes as the individual needs change.

Putting your own needs, desires, hopes on hold because you’re trying to keep the peace in a relationship doesn’t serve you, and it doesn’t even serve the person you’re sacrificing for. Sometimes you have to let go. And letting go might happen a little bit, or it might happen a lot. Each situation is different.

The answer lies in your heart. And you already know what it is. It’s been with you since the beginning of time.

Today’s Exercise

I’m not going to encourage the ending of any marriages or anything! But today, we look at our relationships. How do they serveĀ  us, how do they not. What pieces are working, what pieces are not. And those answers are found in our heart. Does your relationship give you joy?

  • What is your hope, dream, or wish for your relationships?
  • What do you believe to be true about your relationships?
  • And what do you know in your heart about your relationships?

Do this for all of your relationships. Look for ways to remove some of the structures that bind you, or to establish structures that serve you.

When a relationship serves you and supports your heart’s desire, it is magical. But that magic can disappear just as soon as it shows up. Stay conscious of areas where compromise causes you to sacrifice the music of your heart.